I'm not quite sure how many times Todd or myself has said to each other, "I love Ty at this age. I wish he'd stay "x months" forever.
Today I'm pretty sure I confirmed I love this age. The almost 3, still loving his Mama, and funny as hell stage.
Today Ty and I made a trip to Louisville for yet another funeral. My Mamaw Lynch, my 97 year old babysitter growing up, passed away on Thursday night. 97 years old! She babysat my sister and I until we were too old to need one, and then she cleaned my parents home. She was our family, hence the "Mamaw" name. She loved me and my sister so much. She taught us things we still remember--like the books of the New Testament and Bible verses. She let us make our own Chef Boyardee pizza and if we said words like "darn" or "crap" we had to put a nickel from our piggy bank into a jar. Maybe I should do that to myself now...
Anyhow, Mamaw and I had a special bond. I prayed, and prayed I would find another Mamaw Lynch when it was time for me to have childcare for my boys but I found quickly, it was impossible. She was one of a kind. I loved her. My family loved her. And, she loved us just like we were her's.
So today, Ty and I drove home to Louisville. We talked about how Clifford the Big Red Dog is "weally, weally big"on they way home. And, how he gets to see his girlfriend Hannah at school again to tomorrow. (he gets all giggly when he talks about her too. hmmm....) We counted cows and horses...you know, the important things in life.
We went to Mimi and Papaw's first, then to visit my Papaw in the nursing home. Ty is still a little confused about my Papaw. He calls my Dad, Papaw too. So, we've had to start being very descriptive in saying Mama's Papaw or Ty's Papaw when we talk about him. Papaw was very sleepy today, but he was laughing on and off. Ty loved it. He was so happy to tell Papaw about Buzz and Woody and he LOVED trying to wake Papaw up. Ty really did enjoy visiting him and I just know that my Papaw loved him being there too.
We saw my sisters new house then went to the funeral home. The same funeral home that Ty has been to 3 times now for my Mamaw and my Memaw. The same funeral that has a "cool fountain" outside and birdies to watch. He has the memory of an elephant so he was sure to tell us as we were walking in, "shhh, Mamaw "Wynch" is sweeping (sleeping). we gotta be quiet"...that's what he told everyone at Memaw's funeral just a few months prior--that Memaw went night-night and then to heaven.
He's so stinkin' cute about it all it helps to remove the lump in your throat that forms anytime you step foot inside a funeral home.
I love his innocent mind just telling us exactly what he's thinking. I love his baggy clothes and how he's so tall and talkative that people about fall over when they realize he's just 2 (almost 3 though, he's very quick to correct you). He is a mess. (For those of you that don't know what a mess is, it's a loving term that means they're so dag on cute and rotten that you just want to eat them up with a spoon!)
Now it's time to list some Ty-ism's yet again...but he's just that darn funny...
-As we're walking in the funeral home today, he says "Mimi, you got some coins for me to throw?" (into the fountain). As we're walking out, Ty got his coins (Mimi's boy...pshhhhh...ahhh). He throws one like a baseball pitch and his momentum threw his hands and torso in the freakin' fountain. Only my kid!
-The other night Ty and I went on a walk. I was pushing like 70 lbs. of toddler and stroller up a mountain so yes, I was huffing and puffing. Ty leans around and says "Mama, you okay back there?" I told him I was fine (in between trying to catch my breath) and he said "Mama, you're breavin' weally loud". Thanks Ty. Thanks for pointing that out for me. (for the record, I was pissed his sippy cup was empty by this point).
-As we crossed the Ohio River today, Ty said "Mama, dat the ocean?". I told him that sure would be nice, but no. It was the river. (the river is very muddy right now for some reason). He says, "eeeewww, dat river is really yucky. It wooks like dirty poopy pants."
-In the grocery the other day, Ty saw a Cars cake. He told me he wanted it for his "Birf-day on Ju-whyyyy the 9th". I told him we'd bring it to school for his Birthday and he said, "Mama, dis is the boy cake. Da girls eat the princess cake". Ummmm, sorry to disappoint dude. The girls will be eating on some Tow-Mater too if they want cake!
He just always seems to say things where Todd and I want to burst out laughing, but we have to contain ourselves so we don't embarrass him. (when you child tells you to quit laughin' at them you know you've got to control it!) Minus the whining because he doesn't get his way, this age is great. He's potty trained. He is loving. He knows what he's supposed to do (as in, you can shower and trust him on the loose for more than 5 minutes at a time.). He sleeps without issues. He says, "please" and "thank you" and "I'm sorry" when he's supposed to. He's curious. He's smart. And, he's articulate (and adjective his teacher used on Friday describing him). Yes, that is right on.
Ty Man's almost 3. OMG, that sounds like such a big boy...and he can even play soccer this fall.
On that note, lets press pause for a moment, or a year. This is fun!
*Okay, this post is kind of sugar-coated. Yes, this age is fun. Ty is fun. Tantrums...they happen. Jealousy...it happens. But, all in all, this age is so...rewarding. He's not perfect. Okay, he's close, but no one is perfect. Each day gets better and better as far as meltdowns and grumpiness. Or, at least he is aware of it now which makes big difference!